Arrogance Mixed with Manipulation – 1

Many of our readers have been reporting incidents of arrogance from the Clergy. One of that which we get the maximum is that of Thambi Durai who has a misplaced priority about his tenure in the UAE.  From what I understand he has only one aim in his life. To get the money that is in the pocket of the believers into his own pocket. Nothing else. He has no concern for the people who come to TPM DUBAI, especially if the person is a poor guy.  Recently he publicly insulted a person who stood up for testimony for the sole reason that he belonged to another church and attempted to sing a NON-TPM Hymn before giving his testimony.

Arrogance Mixed with ManipulationThe deception of this evil spirit of Pride is that it gives a feeling of unbridled power and still you do not realize that you are Proud. You always get a reason to justify that pride as something nobler for “GOD”.  We know absolute power corrupts absolutely. This illusion gets into the brain and the individual is addicted to this satanic perception of power.  Because of the fact that this person has immense power, he is not in a position to get any advice that is contrary to his addictive desires. Hitler, Stalin, Mao, Lenin etc are sample masterpieces.

Question: Do you know why such tyrants come into existence?

Answer: The only reason why such tyrants come into existence is that their antics are being accepted by the audience. Had the audience nipped the situation at the very bud, this monster would not have existed. Therefore the bigger responsibility for such behaviour by Thambi Durai and likes rests with the TPM group who is named “Believers”. As far as TPM is concerned, this stage was attained by 90+ years of indoctrination and ignorant submission.

Cultivating Arrogance and Ignorance

This big farm of TPM where Pride of the Clergy and Ignorance of the Laity is cultivated is called the SUNDAY SCHOOL. Right from the Sunday school, the kids are being manipulated by ignorant teachers who are controlled by the deceptive Clergy. One such manipulative text is being circulated through Whatsapp.

In the above, we can see that they have removed the context and even cut out part of scriptures to force their manipulations. We are writing this article specifically for Sunday school students so that they can verify for themselves, the level of manipulations they are being subjected to. We shall discuss the category of each of the manipulations they are putting you through these unscriptural rules. We shall also let you know some very straight commandments of the Lord and his Apostles which TPM has been blatantly disobeying.

Should not Do Facial (Point 1 for Girls)

Note the verse they have quoted.

You are the children of the LORD your God. Do not cut yourselves or shave the front of your heads for the dead, Deut 14:1

Kindly go to a beauty parlour/ Salon and ask the folks there if they do cut people or shave the front of their heads while doing Facial and let me know. As far as I know, facial does not have anything to do with the above.  Moreover, this is regarding a gentile practice done by the Canaanites during those days, ON BEHALF OF THEIR DEAD. For an argument sake, let me accept that they cut people and shave the front of their heads. Now how do we deal with the context “ON BEHALF OF THE DEAD”?  If we can ignore this important context, we can as well make rules stating that “Nobody should eat fruits” and quote Gen 2:17. Unless we stand up to such manipulations by the Clergy, we are just enjoying the broad way to hell. Call it whatever you want (Zion, New Jerusalem). Don’t expect God to honour your willful disobedience.

Should not dye or colour their Hair  (Point 2 for Girls)

Note the verse they have quoted

And do not swear by your head, for you cannot make even one hair white or black. Matt 5:36

Unless you are reading with your brains leased out, you should have easily understood the difference between “Cannot” and “Should not“. Is Jesus quoting about dyeing of hairs or saying about your inability to change the natural way of life? Personally, I too do not like dying of hairs as that is a superficial way of thinking. But quoting a scripture to manipulate people, is much more dangerous as you are fiddling with the scriptures which is God Breathed, to mind control others. Do you think that God approves it? God is much interested in the Means used to reach the End.  He will never approve of a corrupt means to achieve the desired end.

Should not apply Nail Paints and Grow Long Nails  (Point 3 for Girls and Point 2 for Boys)

Let us check the Verse they have quoted.

Immediately what had been said about Nebuchadnezzar was fulfilled. He has driven away from people and ate grass like the ox. His body was drenched with the dew of heaven until his hair grew like the feathers of an eagle and his nails like the claws of a bird. Daniel 4:33

This is an event that happened in the life of Nebuchadnezzar. I don’t see any place where we see Nebuchadnezzar having applied Nail Paints.  Moreover, if you happen to lose your sense, it’s natural for your hairs and nails to grow and without trimming it becomes a mess. At no point in time, this verse is condemning the Babylonian King for not trimming his nails. Just as in the above point, if they had said this statement plainly without quoting such unconnected verses, I would have agreed to it as it is good to trim your nails and keep it nice without any artificiality.  But as soon as you are quoting scriptures inappropriately to mind control kids, you are being manipulative and allowing the spirit of witchcraft to operate. We need to show doors to such Jezebels who act as spiritual people.

Should not wear Short Kurta (Point 4 for Girls)

Wearing decent clothing is always good and I recommend it. Our clothing needs to cover body and not expose parts which may be a cause for offence/temptation. I agree with the quoted scriptures for the purpose. However, I would like to have avoided the use of Zephaniah 1:8 as it is strictly a different context.

And it shall come to pass in the day of the Lord’s sacrifice, that I will punish the princes, and the king’s children, and all such as are clothed with strange apparel. Zeph 1:8

In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array; 10 but (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works. 1 Tim 2:9-10

We also need to note that the Timothy Reference specifically speaks of “Costly Array”.  It does not identify the colour, but the Price of the item in the market.  How come the circular does not address this part? We have TPM teachers and Believers who come in White Sarees which cost many thousands of rupees. How come the Gold Rim of the Specs and the Rolex Watches gets a pass?

Should not wear Leggings (Point 5 for Girls)

No Comments as they have not quoted any scripture to support their dictates.

Should not wear Jeans Pant (Point 6 for Girls)

Note the scriptures they have quoted.

A woman must not wear men’s clothing, nor a man wears women’s clothing, for the Lord, your God detests anyone who does this. Deut 22:5

This point is one of the best samples of TPM Cherry Picking of Old Testament laws and applying it selectively to the New Testament believers (if I could call TPM folks as NT Believers). How come they ignore many of such commandments from the books of Moses and take this one?

Why don’t TPM pastors obey by fixing Tassels on their Cloak? Why don’t they read the rest of the verses of the same Chapter?

Make tassels on the four corners of the cloak you wear. Deut 25:12

Let us look at some scriptures which shows the cherry picking by  TPM Clergy.

10 And all that have not fins and scales in the seas, and in the rivers, of all that move in the waters, and of any living thing which is in the waters, they shall be an abomination unto you:

11 They shall be even an abomination unto you; ye shall not eat of their flesh, but ye shall have their carcases in abomination.

12 Whatsoever hath no fins nor scales in the waters, that shall be an abomination unto you.

Lev 11:9-12

According to the above verse, should not they refrain from eating Prawns, Lobsters, Crabs, Sear Fish and a horde of sea creatures which is classified as abominable?  As far as I know almost all of them love to eat these kinds of seafood. Where do they get these cherry-picking tricks?

Quoting one more example below.

“‘Keep my decrees. “‘Do not mate different kinds of animals. “‘Do not plant your field with two kinds of seed. “‘Do not wear clothing woven of two kinds of material.  Lev 19:19

How come TPM who is careful about Deut 22:5  ignore Lev 19: 19? 

Do they not know that their undergarments/socks have mostly Nylon/elastic rubber threads Woven into the linen? What do we do with multi fabric and Polyester coats and suites which the TPM Pastors love to wear when they take an international flight?

If they want to be perfected by the Old Testament laws, they cannot accept some and ignore the rest. They have to fulfil the complete 613 laws. No exceptions granted.

For whoever keeps the whole law and yet stumbles at just one point is guilty of breaking all of it. James 2:10


Dear Parents of Sunday School Students,

You cannot ignore the scriptures and expect that the teachers and the clergy will take care of your kids. You have been blessed with children and you have a responsibility which God will require from you.  Outsourcing your spiritual responsibility to religious brokers is not a valid excuse.

Train up a child in the way he should go, Even when he is old he will not depart from it.  Prov 22:6

The above verse also means that, if you train up your child in the TPM Crooked way, they will Not depart from it.

To be continued…..

27 Comments on “Arrogance Mixed with Manipulation – 1”

    1. @Mark
      All the evidence on this site points to TPM. Why do you think otherwise? Is it because you are so attached to TPM that you consider their deeper revelations above the Word of God.

      All we can do is pray for you that God in His time who has opened your eyes will also give you the courage to step out into the unknown just like many of us did.

      All I can say from personal experience is that true freedom comes only when the Son sets you free. Till then, my friend, you can continue in the Pig sty. Believe me, it is no place for a sheep. The question is, are you a sheep?

      1. I have repeated many a times and do not want to do the same time and again. But follow God and live and do what he says.

  1. This is once again brilliant writing exposing the subtlety of these servants of the enemy.

    Hope the young generation at least open their eyes and say enough is enough. Can’t say the same about their parents as they will cling on as they will be more worried about a decent burial rather than obeying the Word of God.

    This article shows the difference between exegesis and eisegesis and it is something every true christian should understand lest they be mislead. TPM’s doctrines are mainly based on eisegesis.

    If you want to know more, please go to

    1. Indeed a brilliant exposition to nonsense brainwashing of tpm. I am amazed at blindness of protmpites, that even after such a clear explanation of Tpm’s errorneous eisegesis, these blinds want to stick to their blindness.! What more could have one done to open their eyes!!!

      Thanks for “exegesis and eisegesis” difference.

  2. Instead of planting seeds of weightier matters of law, judgement, mercy and faith: they sow such seeds of hypocrisy right from tender age. The larger goal of Satan is met as another generation of ignorant souls are prepared to drift from Christ. We are truly blessed to have the scales off our eyes and we should work towards doing the same as much as possible amongst our generation.

  3. I would like to highlight a point here , A dress which is considered decent to one person maybe indecent to another person. So that is highly subjective. I have heard from my senior at tpm , that she was asked to leave the church when she wore salwar kameez to church when she was a teenager, now it is not a problem. And I do not agree about , ” Cause for offense/ temptation “, may take this as an excuse and blame a girl, when they molest. It is in the eyes of the beholder and it is so natural that you get attracted to opposite gender when you are young and if you are a well bred and has the fear of God, one knows how to handle it and even at 60’s if people are offended or tempted, I think then he has a serious problem and visit a psychiatrist.

    1. Tpm sisters wear fully covered clothes. They neither wear jeans or jewellery or any fashionable clothes. Still they are able to attract male tpm workers and then we hear both of them elope one day. So the problem is not in dress but at heart. And it does not get changed by jumping and shouting and by speaking unintelligible words. No matter how many rules they make, we will keep hearing love stories of holy humble saints eloping with their mates.

    2. Dear Nisha,
      I am not here to get stuck in your feministic point of view or prove an argument with you. I stand with God and the Apostle Paul over dressing instructions. Perceptions of Decency may vary from place to place, but exposing the body beyond levels of public decency of that society is to be avoided. Please do not blame the eyes of the beholder as we all are work in progress and if somebody falls because of your careless attitude, you will be held responsible.

      The LORD God made garments of skin for Adam and his wife and clothed them. Gen 3:21

      Jesus was tempted in EVERY WAY. We men are not there yet to claim such victory as of now. Neither are we fraudulent apostles claiming Eunuchs. So as a wise step, I would ask you to stay away from such enticements.

      For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are–yet he did not sin. Hebrews 4:15

      1. I never blamed the eyes of the beholder. I said it is very natural to get attracted and also the basic instinct of human beings. I’m not putting forth a feministic view as well. And I do not understand what is the careless attitude and falling prey. A male/female can get attracted to opposite sex , even when they are fully covered. And suppose one sees a woman who is exposing the body and you are attracted, then I would call it as natural and I hope God understands that as well. But if he molests, is God going to put the owners on the man or woman ? You mean, the man can get away with it? The clothes which I feel decent maybe exposing according to others and I think, it is every individuals responsibility and it is between them and God.

  4. There was a instance in a faith home when the congregation sang ” um azhagna kangal” and is an AG worship song, to my surprise entire church sang in chorus as though all of knew it before, which I heard louder than any other song usually sung. Holy spirit will do what he wants to do, he will not let any of HIS flock unguided. He will counsel all who calls the name of Jesus. Even if leadership misguides, lord will guide. Things are bound to change and will change as per holy spirit guidance. People who follow holy spirit at any church will do as per holy spirit demands. Lets pray Jesus and holy spirit take over the men of flesh, misled congregation and ALL the churches for a new change as per his will ready for his coming

    1. Agree Brother,
      However, please also understand that a huge majority constitutes what Jesus calls as “Tares”. Matt 13:24-30

      1. Perfectly agree with you, the human element has to be done with. It will vanish when the lord intervenes. I would like to see it in every church so that its ready for his coming. I appreciate your work in exposing the items which would otherwise be unknown. I would like to ask you few questions?

        does soul winning happen in tpm? if yes how ?
        Are there any changes happening now in leadership to accept flaws and correct them?
        what about miracles?
        Does the leadership wants to be served and maintains itself above the congregation?
        Why do messages have so much inner meanings that only leadership can explain us and our understandings are ignored when we express it ?

        I have listened to few messages but felt it was difficult to understand, but not when I read bible. There was so much difference in the experience. I would rather listen to messages where holy spirit speaks to me..

        1. Brother The answer to your questions are as follows

          //does soul winning happen in TPM? if yes how?

          Soul winning for Jesus does not happen in TPM. Whatever they do is grabbing souls for their cult by misusing Jesus name. If someone escapes from their clutches, they may be led to genuine Christ, unlike the rubber stamp which TPM Believes in.

          //Are there any changes happening now in leadership to accept flaws and correct them?

          As far as I know none. What has happened to them is that their erroneous doctrines are exposed by us and now they are stuck between the truth and their ego. They cannot accept the truth and shift to it from their erroneous doctrines because they will lose their false credibility built on the wrong foundation.

          //what about miracles?

          Miracles do not happen in TPM. There are a huge number of deaths happening in TPM of young ministers. If somehow any miracles are happening, it is not because of them but in spite of them and their evil doctrines because God is merciful to that person in that situation.

          //Does the leadership wants to be served and maintains itself above the congregation?

          Yes, and they think they are saviours like Jesus.

          //Why do messages have so many inner meanings that only leadership can explain us and our understandings are ignored when we express it?

          This is one of their stunts and these believers think it is a great job. But in reality, it is a fraudulent manufacture of messages. This is how erroneous doctrines are inserted into their system. There are so many messages in which they use this technique to vilify others and glorify their ministry.

      2. I know a story where a daughter who got married in AG church in Bangalore is unable to express her problems of her house to her own mother, father who is a stout TPM (new) believers for 10 years. Because, her parents admonish her of being AG is the reasons for all her problems. Even health issues of her in laws get same response from her parents. Accusers, how would holy spirit be in them? Cant believe their words too, Why don’t the leadership correct this unchristen like behavior of the TPM members, be sensitive and have contrite heart. After all Jesus healed all who came to him. They contradict Jesus of our bible, few are shameful to say call our co believers. would leadership care to change them ? I hope some body from tpm leadership reads this and acts, It cant work like this when holy spirit is moving around multitudes in these last days …

  5. Sorry to say children of God lack of knowledge that they are playing with fire, Mariam spoke against her own brother who was chosen servant of God immediately punishment(everyone knows it) , now we r in Grace period of Christ that is why we can twist our tongue which ever way we want, but the end will be worst. I’m very much pleased for the rules kept for girls n boys , how much simple we r that much we r on the way to heaven, path is narrow n hard but that leads to heaven. We no need to see doctrine of here n there , and accuse, read Bible, and walk according to it. Every church has rules n guides us how to prepare ourself for the coming of the Lord, and if it’s not according to own liking rather then accusing ,be silent. Coming of the Lord is near, Satan knows which way to drag as much children of God to hell n himself. So please,my humble request, in our life as much as possible please God n live and let others also live happily.

    1. @ Christine

      I appreciate your zeal and your loyalty to TPM however the Bible says that TPM is a false religion.

      If Jesus was physically walking on the Earth today, he would be looking at TPM and its believers like you and would have cried,

      O TPM, TPM, thou that espouses false teachings , and mocks and curses them that correct thee, how often would I have gathered thy believers together, even as a hen gathereth her chickens under her wings, and ye would not!

      Open your heart and cry out for yourself and your family so that God will have mercy and open your eyes to see The Truth and He will set you free from TPM’s deception into His Marvellous Light.

      Please don’t worry about the Admin because God is and will reward him for what he is doing to expose the true lies of this cult.

  6. Appalled by the ill tempered views/ abuses expressed by the ignorant readers a detailed reply is on the anvil that I would like to share soon in this site. What more can be done except praying for them. Request ADMIN and his TEAM to exercise utmost patience and bless them who shower their curses in return.

  7. Refer to this article and that article has become God of this site. Wondering how soon this site gonna be trapped under the same definition of cult.

    1. @Stephen…Wisdom is a rare commodity in this age and your comment is a testimony to that.

      This site will not be a cult but will end up with a cult following….and most of its followers will be from TPM and by God’s Grace some of them will be set free.

      The question is “will you be one of them?”

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